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recently, a video of “a boy snatching a toy in an amusement park is being violently pushed by a strange man” has become a hot topic on the Internet. Surveillance video showed an adult man hitting a 3-year-old boy with his hand and repeatedly pushing him to the ground. Later, the toy gun in the boy’s hand was dropped to the ground by an adult woman

the video continued to ferment after it was spread on the Internet. Some netizens thought it was normal for children to snatch toys, and the man was a little too rough with the children. Some netizens think that the boy fighting for toys is a “bear child”, and parents should educate them well.

what’s going on? Why are the adult men and women in the video rude to a 3-year-old? Red Star News reporters visited and investigated in many ways that the incident happened in a children’s amusement park in Jianxing Town, Nanchong County, Sichuan Province. On the night of the incident, the parents of the 3-year-old boy were not at the scene. His 11-year-old sister took him to the amusement park to play. The incident happened between his sister’s purchase of water. The cause of this incident stems from the fact that a 3-year-old boy robbed other children’s toys. The father of the robbed child was so eager to protect his son that he acted rashly on impulse.

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although the two sides met at the police station the next morning to “reconcile”: the violent man apologized to the boy’s family, but the network public opinion caused by the continuous spread of surveillance video made both sides unexpected and physically and mentally exhausted. Now, in the face of the “amusement park storm” caused by the toy snatching, the two fathers have also made a reflection

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boys fighting for toys in the amusement park

have been pushed and pushed on the ground by strange men for many times.

in recent days, a video of “boys snatching toys in amusement parks is being violently pushed by strange men” has been popular on the Internet.

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Red Star News reporters learned that the incident amusement park is located in a supermarket in Jianxing Town, Nanbu County, Nanchong City, Sichuan Province. Children entering the amusement park need to buy 10 yuan tickets.

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Red Star journalists obtained a 5:31-second surveillance video of the incident, which showed that at about 9:30 p.m. on August 7, several children were playing in the amusement park, and a man in a white T-shirt accompanied a child playing at the entrance of the amusement park.

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surveillance video shows that a boy who was playing on the trampoline in the amusement park came to the entrance with a toy gun and picked up a toy car of the child playing there. The latter immediately took the toy car back and put it on the ground. After a few steps back, the boy squatted down to get the toy car.

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video screen shows that the two children scrambled for toy cars. The adult man next to

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noticed the condition of the two children, during which he reached out and tried to get rid of the boy who had come to grab the toy car. Then, the child whose toy was robbed suddenly burst into tears. The adult man saw this and beat the boy who came to rob the toy with his backhand. The first time he missed, the boy went back to the inside of the amusement park. The man then got up, entered the amusement park, beat the boy, and then returned to the entrance of the amusement park. After

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, the beaten boy was repeatedly pushed to the ground by the man when he slapped and grabbed the man with a toy gun. During this period, an adult woman came to appease the child whose toy was robbed. When the boy who robbed the toy again pointed at the man with the toy gun, the woman suddenly grabbed the toy gun and fell to the ground. The boy later grabbed the man’s neck and was pushed to the ground again

later, a little girl came over (later confirmed to be a boy’s sister) and took away the boy’s hand squatting on the ground, telling her not to pull the strange man’s shoes.

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Red Star News reporters found that the surveillance video only had pictures, and did not release the sound of the scene.

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on August 10, the Red Star News reporter learned that the 3-year-old boy who had been repeatedly pushed to the ground in the video was taken to the amusement park by his 11 year old sister on the night of the incident. During the interval between her sister’s going to buy him water, he had a dispute over robbing another boy’s toy, and was finally pushed to the ground by his father for many times.

finding someone late at night

the parents of the boy released the surveillance video

to look for a violent stranger.

Zhou Yong (pseudonym) is the father of the toy boy. When everything in the surveillance video happened, he was busy working outside and was preparing to go home, not at the scene of the incident. Zhou Yong, 40, lives in Jianxing town. He told the Red Star News reporter that his son Duoduo (not his real name) was 3 years old and sent to the kindergarten during the day and picked it up at 5:00 p.m. Because he has to go to work in the evening, he usually sends his son to his wife’s work place, and then takes his son home after his wife leaves work at 7 o’clock in the evening.

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on the night of August 7, Zhou Yong asked his 11 year old daughter to take care of his son at home because his wife worked overtime temporarily. That night, her 11 year old sister took care of Duoduo at home. After eating, she took Duoduo to play in the children’s amusement park in the supermarket not far from home, which was the place where the two brothers used to go.

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fight for toys, which happened in the gap between sister buying water for younger brother. Duo’s sister told the Red Star News reporter that her brother wanted to drink water, so she went to the supermarket to buy water. When she returned, her brother was crying, squatting on the ground, holding a strange man’s shoes with his hand, and his toy gun was also thrown on the ground and broken into two pieces, “my aunt said some unpleasant words at that time, and I also replied a few words. Then they left with that brother, and my brother said he would go home, so I took him home and cried all the time on the way On the night of

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, Zhou Yong came home from work and saw that Duoduo’s left face was a little red and swollen. “I asked him (son) at that time. He said he was robbing toys with children and fighting with children.” Zhou Yong thought it was a matter between the children. He was ready to tell his son that he could not rob toys with other children in the future. At this time, his son said, “an uncle also hit me…” Zhou Yong,

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, said he didn’t keep questioning his son. He wanted to catch up with the amusement park before the supermarket closed. Zhou Yong asked the supermarket staff, but the other side said they were not clear about the situation at that time. The staff helped Zhou Yong transfer the monitoring. During this period, Zhou Yong called the police, and the police suggested that he take his son to the hospital for injury examination.

“Kdsps “at about 11 o’clock that night, Zhou Yong took his son to a hospital in the town,” the doctor said that the injury was not serious, pay attention to observation. ” After that, Zhou Yong took his son home.

“the daughter is also very self blame, feel that did not take care of her brother.” Zhou Yong told the Red Star News reporter that when he and his wife went home that night, he and his wife looked over and over again at the monitoring pictures, and they felt uncomfortable when they saw the picture of their son’s small body being pushed on the ground by strange men for many times. The couple wanted to find out the rough strange man as soon as possible and find out the cause of the matter.

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at about 11:20 p.m., Zhou Yong and his wife sent the monitoring video to some local wechat groups, hoping that someone could provide information about “strange man”, and the “person seeking” information soon spread in the local wechat circle of friends. After the video of

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was sent out for 38 minutes, a netizen provided Zhou Yong with information that he knew the “strange man” in the monitoring screen and lived with them in the same town.

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boy snatched toys and injured his son’s eyebrow corner.

regretted his impulsive behavior that night.

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later confirmed that the violent man in the surveillance video was a father born in the 90s. On August 10, Red Star News reporter saw Ah Hui (not his real name) who pushed the boy down many times in the video. He told reporters about the process and the cause of the incident that night.

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ah Hui recalled to the Red Star News reporter that he and his wife (the woman who threw the boy’s toy gun in the video) took their two-year-old son to the supermarket amusement park to play that night. During this period, a boy came to grab his son’s toy. At first, he didn’t care, but the boy’s action was still going on. He put the boy’s hand away with his hand, but the boy beat his son. At that time, I saw my son crying, so I beat the boy myself.

a Hui’s wife showed her son’s face photo to the reporter, which showed that there was a bruise on the left eyebrow corner that had not yet dispersed. However, Zhou Yong said that when the two sides met at the police station for the first time, the other party did not mention the injury of his son’s eyebrow corner, and he did not know the details at that time.

ah Hui said that the boy came to beat him many times with a toy gun and said “kill you, kill you” and so on, and then he pushed the boy down. Ah Hui told the Red Star News reporter repeatedly that he regretted the impulse of that night: “I was really impulsive at that time. I shouldn’t have done so. I was also the first time to be a father. When I heard my baby cry, I was impulsive

ah Hui’s wife told the Red Star News reporter that when the incident happened, she was not far away from reading, and heard her son crying. “I was still complaining about him (her husband), saying that there was a conflict between the children’s toy snatching, so you should not start.”

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also explained the boy’s toy gun by his wife. “I asked aloud where the parents were, but no one responded.” She said that later, when she saw that the boy had been pointing a toy gun at her husband and saying some unpleasant words, she angrily took the toy gun and dropped it on the ground. Later, she regretted the move. “If the parents of the other party were there, it would not have happened.” On the night of

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, after a Hui and his wife took their sons home, they did not know that the monitoring video about them was spreading in the local wechat group. The next morning at about 9 o’clock, a Hui received a call from the police station in the district.

in the police station, Zhou Yong and a Hui met for the first time. In front of the police, ah Hui apologized to Zhou Yong’s family about the night before. Zhou Yong also said that he would not send relevant information online. Zhou Yong told the Red Star News reporter that he accepted an apology at that time and did not pay attention to this matter after he left the police station.

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unexpected: after apologizing, the videos of

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were still diffused.

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robbed boys of toys. On the morning of August 8, Zhou Yong decided to take his son and daughter to a nearby scenic spot after experiencing the “amusement Park storm” the night before. That night, a strange phone call to his wife’s mobile phone, a man on the phone asked why they sent the monitoring video to the Internet, “has not both sides negotiated?” It was ah Hui who called

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. At that time, he saw on the Internet that we media platform had released the monitoring video of the amusement park that night. He apologized to the other party that morning, and the other Party promised not to send the relevant information to the Internet. Ah Hui said that when he saw the phone number attached to the post, he thought it was the phone number of the person who released the video, so he called to contact the other party. After that, he knew that the number was the number of Zhou Yong’s wife.

Zhou Yong and his wife were confused when they received the phone call. The couple explained to each other that they did not contact the platform to release the video, but on the night of the incident, in order to find talents, they sent the video to some wechat groups. The video was then forwarded by other netizens and then reproduced and released by other platforms.

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Zhou Yong said that they later received phone calls from ahui’s wife, brother and friends. One of them also threatened to sue him. He explained the cause of the incident in the phone, saying that he did not transmit the video to other platforms, and promised to help the other party contact the platform to delete the video.

Zhou Yong said that after some official microblogs also released relevant information, but the information still stayed in the situation on the night of the incident. “If they contacted me with a video released at that time, we would say the latest situation of the matter. The other party has apologized, and we have accepted the apology, which will not cause such misunderstanding.”

Zhou Yong said that after taking his son home from the hospital that night, his son repeatedly said “let’s go home soon” during his sleep. In the past few nights, my son sometimes wakes up in the middle of the night, which has never happened before.

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made Zhou Yong feel even more sad. Some netizens commented that he was targeting his 3-year-old son. When he and his wife saw the words “deserve to be beaten”, “bear children” and “it is someone else’s help to educate”, they felt uncomfortable. Some netizens think that it is normal for children to snatch toys, and the man’s hand is a little heavy. “If children make trouble, adults can’t fight with each other”

Zhou Yong said thatAs a father, ah Hui is also responsible for educating his son. When there is a conflict between the two children, ah Hui is also a father. When there is a conflict between his son and another strange child, ah Hui is certainly not the most appropriate way.

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reflection of two fathers.

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— when a son grabs toys, he will pay attention to education and guide his behavior.

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— he should not do it that night, but should set a good example in front of the children Although

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were “reconciled” in the police station the morning after the incident, the network public opinion caused by the spread of the original monitoring video made both of them unexpected.

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on August 10, when Red Star News reporters met Zhou Yong and ah Hui at Jianxing police station in Nanbu County, both sides were very tired because of this. On the day of

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, after further coordination by the police at the police station, ah Hui handwritten an apology letter to Zhou Yong: “a I have a conflict with your child in the amusement park, so that the child’s mind is hurt. As an adult, it is impulsive to deal with things. Here, I deeply apologize. I’m sorry. I must reflect deeply and hope to understand. ” Zhou Yong and his wife said they accepted ah Hui’s apology.

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have come to an end. After

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, ah Hui reflected that if he went back to that night, when a strange boy came to grab his son’s toys, he might try to teach his son to exchange his toys with his “brother” and play together instead of letting the two children fight for toys there. When two children have conflicts and their son is beaten, as a father, he should not be eager to protect his son and start with a child. “Now I think it was really impulsive at that time, which is also a lesson for me as a father.” Ah Hui said that it should be the best way to wait for the boy’s parents to come that night, rather than act on the boy on impulse. After all, as a father, he should set a good example in front of his children.

“this would not have happened if our adults were present that night.” Zhou Yong said so. He said that in the future, when educating children, he and his wife will also pay attention to guiding their sons not to fight for toys when playing with other children, but to play together, and to know how to share toy and other behavior details. After the

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and “amusement park disturbance”, the 3-year-old duo didn’t bring home the broken toy gun, which was a gift from his father this Spring Festival.

“although the toy gun is not expensive, it should be the most important thing for his son.” Zhou Yong said that after his son’s toy gun was broken, he comforted his son and asked him what other toys he wanted. Unexpectedly, his son replied, “buy a toy gun that can’t be broken.”.

Zhou Yong did not immediately agree to his son, because after this incident, he went to his son’s kindergarten teacher for communication. The teacher suggested that he could show his son some gentle cartoons, so as to guide his son’s language and behavior.

Zhou Yong plans not to change his son’s toy gun, but to try to change some other types of toys to guide him

Red Star journalist Wang Chao

original title: a 3-year-old boy amusement park was repeatedly pushed to the ground by strange men